Have you ever known deep in your heart that there is more you can do to help and serve those that are hurting and need help?
What if I told you you can do just that right now! My whole life has been feeling for others and deep compassion and serving the hurting and suffering.
As a young child I often wondered, "what happens to me if something happens to my parents?" I remember wondering..."Is there a guidebook that will show us what to do or what they would want us to do or where to go? Would we be able to make it as just us siblings and if so, how would we handle it all and take care of things and where is all the information we need?"
Then eventually I would become an EMT and see more suffering than I care to recall. I held the hands of too many people as they took their last breath, tried endlessly, sometimes to no avail to save the lives of every single human we encountered on our calls, and watched families become completely devastated at the sudden loss of their loved ones.
During that time, I heard many families say things like, "I don't even know if he/she had life insurance or if so who it is with. Where will I even start to figure this all out? Now I need to figure out how to pay the bills and work to survive on my own. What if there are other assets or bills I don't even know about. How do I even know where to start?"
Then, fast forward more years and I would become an overnight caregiver to my mom through trauma. My mom went from being a triathlete to a C1 Quadriplegic (completely paralyzed from the neck down unable to move or breathe at all on her own for the rest of her life) in the blink of an eye in a car wreck Christmas Day 2005 on the way to church. To say that experience was harrowing and overwhelming would be a massive understatement.
During that time is when I would also have both of my children that we get to hold this side of heaven as well as 3 miscarriages. This all led me to an even deeper groaning in my soul of questions like, "What happens to mom if something happens to Dad? Will we be able to keep her care going and still take care of our own family? I know he has the money, but what about all the practical how tos and who to call and how to keep the money in savings or growing or whatever so it's there for the long haul for Mom in case she even outlives me?"
And, at one point, I did ask my Dad and he did tell me there was a key and to open a certain drawer and all the information was right there. And while I am sure it was all there, that didn't ease my "prone to be sure everyone is taken care of" mind at all. I wanted to see it and put my hands on it to be sure I understood it and would do it all right and that I didn't have any further questions that he and I could discuss and I would have a better understanding of what to do in case something had happened.
For me, it wasn't so much about death as it was about LIVING and how to handle all of the countless things that are piled on the ones still here after the loved one has passed.
Let me just say from seeing countless families in agony and seeing EVERY SINGLE AGE and health status affected that it matters not what your plans are or what kind of shape you are in or how young you are.
What does matter is the amount of love and compassion you have for your family and those that you will leave behind whenever it is time for your earthly journey to be over.
What matters is deep intention and thought and love to think deeply about our loved ones and the emptiness and lonesomeness they will experience when we are gone, and our ability to do something about that.
I am beyond grateful God has finally placed on my heart how all this first hand experience with suffering, death, and joyfully living while we are still here can finally be put into a practical guide to be filled in by YOU right now to have available to your loved ones when your journey here is done.
Here's a pic of me and my adorable birthday twin just days before she would save my life. Want to read more about that? Be sure to subscribe!
It is, in fact, THE PEACE OF MIND BINDER, because it is the ultimate in thinking of them first and truly diving deep to cover all bases so that it puts any anxiety, concern, or wondering to rest of "how to handle this or that or what to do in case of this" and even helps with the thing most commonly heard after someone passes and time offensively moves on. That thing is "I wish I could ask them how they did this just the way they did it." We cover that in the How-To Section.
In order to make this fully adaptable to most any situation, there will be sections that there are just fillable pages because each situation is so different.
Rest assured though that this is THE PEACE OF MIND BINDER AND GUIDEBOOK you have been wishing you had too.
As someone who is prone to anxiety and depression, as soon as I started making this binder, my anxiety immediately went down. So much anxiety can be relieved with planning and careful thought.
I won't lie...I have told my husband over the years that it makes me panicky to think I don't even know what to do if something were to happen to him. I need to know it will all be in one place so that if it should happen that when the overwhelm of my whole world being ripped out from under me, at least I know I can go to one place, and grab one binder and have all of it right there to walk me through it all.
Grief, to be clear, is the heaviest weight I know of in this life and to add anything extra to someone grieving is an unfair and cruel punishment that now is completely unnecessary due to the creation of this long awaited and life changing product!
This product is meant to be filled in as much as possible as a love letter to those we would leave behind, but is also an incredible guidebook to have if you are newly walking through loss as a way to show you all the steps to take to get through the process. Then, you can fill out your own realizing how necessary it is for those left behind in order to be able to function in their "new normal" as heavy as it may be, so that all these details don't have to consume them whole.
Life is a joyous, one of a kind, never seen anything like it experience. We only have one. That's it. Let's go all in with this PEACE OF MIND BINDER and pour our lives and love into it so that our loved ones can eventually get on with their lives because of our love and compassion towards them. Don't wait. Do it now, and get on with that beautiful journey of yours called Life!
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You are allowed to use this ONLY FOR IMMEDIATE MEMBERS OF YOUR HOUSEHOLD. In order to do this, simply save it separately before filling it out as each persons name.
Introduction (Insider info on why you need this now!) $35 value
How To Use This Binder (Helping Insider Tips on how to use this resource) $35 value
Table Of Contents
First Things First Section (What to handle first and right away) $30 value
Final Wishes Section (Love letter & wishes for your loved ones after your gone) Priceless
Final Arrangements Section (service plans and details) $250 value
Legal Stuff Section (death cert, SS, wills, and work details, & more) $250 value
Financial Stuff Section (life insur, budgeting, open acc, & more) $250 value
How-To Without Me Section (all the things your loved ones will need to know) Priceless
Memories Section (things you want to pass on through generations) Priceless
Comfort Section (grief groups, counseling, bible verses, journaling) $75 value
Word of Hope & Encouragement (Hope & Encouragement for future) Priceless
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